Date of Death: November 8, 2025
Service Details
In accordance with family wishes, cremation will be conducted; a celebration of life will be planned at a later date.
Obituary Notice
Jaclynn Dee “Jackie” Havens, 78, of White Pigeon, passed away Saturday, November 8, 2025 at Elkhart General Hospital with her loving husband at her side.
She was born March 25, 1947 in Three Rivers, the daughter of James and Ilene (Brewer) Oswalt, and graduated from Three Rivers High School with the Class of 1965.
Jackie worked as the office manager for H&R Block for 15 years.
On June 19, 1965 she married her soulmate, Michael Hewitt “Mike” Havens. From their childhood friendship at First Presbyterian Church through 60 years of marriage, the two shared a beautiful relationship.
Jackie was a very compassionate person, especially for animals, and she and Mike had horses for more than 40 years. They were members of the Michigan Quarter Horse Association and showed horses throughout the United States.
She volunteered as a Girl Scout leader, class reunion organizer, and was heavily involved with planning committee for the 1960s class reunions held in downtown Three Rivers.
Jackie’s life was marked by structure, integrity, and fashion – she was always impeccably dressed!
She is survived by her husband, Mike, and by her brother, Marty (Melanie) Oswalt. She was preceded in death by her daughter, Holly Havens, in 2021.
“Those we love don’t go away; they walk beside us every day. Unseen, unheard but always near, still loved, still missed, and forever dear.”
Additional Information
Donations in Jackie’s memory may be directed to the St. Joseph County Animal Rescue Fund or to WGVU Public Media. Envelopes will be available at Hohner Funeral Home.
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Jackie was incredibly cordial and professional in her everyday life, as well as her work ethics and her volunteer efforts within the Michigan Quarter Horse Association for a long time. She and Mike were just the best couple to be friends with. What a great partner she was for Mike.
I have a list I pray for each night, and Jackie will be on it for some time. Not that she will need a nudge to get on high, there is little doubt she has entered the heavenly light. She was an absolutely delightful friend and will miss her hearty laugh.
Mike, So sorry to hear about Jackie. I’ve known you both for an eternity. Jackie has endured a lot. She would not want you to be sad Mike, she is now at peace. God will get you through this. Have faith & think about all the good times. He is with you at all times. Our prayers are with you. Leroy & Mel
Mike, I am very sorry for your loss. It was quite a shock to hear about Jackie’s passing. My prayers are with you and your family.
Mike,
I am so sorry to hear of Jackie’s passing. She was such a neat person- a great conversationalist with a beautiful smile and a fun sense of humor. I very much enjoyed seeing you two and Holly at a family reunion some years ago. You and Jackie were a couple that was loved and admired, both blessed with sixty years together!
I’m thinking of you and pray that God will bless you now with peace that passes understanding
now and in the days ahead.
With love,
Cousin Susie
Susan (Kinney) Toliver
Mike, thinking about you at this time take care Jackie was a special person.Hugs Mary Kay and Andy
Mike: so saddened by Jackie’s passing. She had a hard road to go but what strength she showed right up to the end! She will be missed by all who knew her! Hopefully she is at peace now and you can try to cope without her . Our thoughts and love Mike. Bob & Kitty
Jackie was always smiling, friendly and kind. What a beautiful life.
Prayers that you find peace and comfort.
Sharon (Kinney) Osowski and family
There are people we share a wonderful bond with. Jackie was that for me. Even though our lives took us miles apart, we had the ability to maintain a special friendship. I have so many great childhood memories that I will treasure. Mike the love you and Jackie had for each other was to be envied. I pray you will in time find peace and comfort. Jackie – I’ll miss our “catch up” talks and the greatest friendship you and I maintained over the years.
Mike – I’m stunned to hear this terrible news. This is a real gut punch. I’m so sorry Jackie has left us. I probably met Jackie about 66 years ago. She was such a sweetheart. She was the quintessential 60s teenage girl, always bopping around having fun with a smile on her face. Falling in love with her must have come easy for you. I’m just so sorry for your loss. I pray you can go on and be okay. Man, I wish I could give you big hug. I know she will live on in your mind for the rest of your life as you recall all the good times and the love you both shared.
Mike,
I can’t really put into words how empty I feel right now. So many memories over the last 60 years.
Take peace in knowing she’s without pain now and is with Holly.
Please stay in touch.
Mike my prayers are for you today as
I know your heart must be broken. I am so sorry for your loss. Please know we at Armstrongs are here if you need us and a multitude of prayers are heading your way.
We are so sorry to hear about Jackie’s passing, Mike. Jackie had a warm, tender smile and was beautiful inside and out. I/we always felt right at home around the two of you.
Prayerfully wishing you comfort and healing as you grieve the passing of the love of your life.
Sarah Kinney Bender and family
Mike,
I’m so sorry to hear about Jackie. You are in my thoughts and prayers.